I want to know you

5:17 PM Roberta W. P. F 0 Comments

I was watching The Notebook last night and for the thousandth time I got very emotional.
It is the film that best portrays the fairytale relationship every woman wants to live. Because even if I believe that the only "Boy" I really need to be my partner in crime is Chanel, I'm sure it'll not write 365 letters expressing his love to me (just lacks that to be perfect).
And I seriously like handwritten letters...
The movie fascinates me, I'm mesmerized by the remote possibility of meeting someone whose absence makes you feel empty and whose company is complementary in a deeper way than a pair of Manolos.
I think the modern world does not only turn fashion, music and technology into something passing, but moves love to the background to focus on the "needs" of the moment. Nobody thinks of the details, the quality or the glamor of things anymore, and those are what make people fall in love.
There is an age when all girls believe that we don't need a Valentine, but a Valentino and nothing more, but that's a lie.

Rather than require, I think it would be more sensible to say we do not want to admit that we want a relationship because "nobody wants something serious" but the truth is that it is natural and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that T
here is a time, a place and an age for everything, but I think that in the end, as with Noah and Allie, it comes down to clicking with someone special that rises a huge level of interest and mental attraction.
When the film was over, I came across this insanely beautiful and tiredly breath-taking text, which
somehow showed me that the feeling of being madly in love still exists...
I hope you like it as much as I did!
 
 Anoche estaba viendo The Notebook y por milésima vez me emocione muchísimo
Pienso que es la película que mejor retrata la relación de ensueño que toda mujer quisiera vivir, por que aún cuando crea que el único "Boy" al que realmente necesito en mi vida es de Chanel, estoy segura de que no me va a escribir 365 cartas para expresarme su amor (solo le falta eso para ser perfecto). Y las cartas escritas a mano realmente me gustan...
Me fascina la película, me fascina la remota posibilidad de conocer a alguien cuya ausencia te haga sentir vacío y cuya compañía sea complementaria. Creo que el mundo moderno no solo hace de la moda, la música y la tecnología algo pasajero, sino que hace que el amor pase a un segundo plano para enfocarse en las "necesidades" del momento. Ya nadie piensa en los detalles ni en la calidad o glamour de las cosas y eso (hombre y mujeres leyendo esto) es lo que realmente enamora. Hay una edad en la que todas las niñas creemos que no necesitamos un San Valentín sino Valentino y nada más, pero no es cierto. Más que necesitar, creo que sería mas sensato decir que no queremos admitir que queremos una relación porque "nadie quiere algo serio" pero la verdad es que es natural y NO HAY ABSOLUTAMENTE nada de malo en eso. Para todo hay un momento, un espacio y una edad pero creo que al final como con Noah y Allie todo se reduce a hacer click con alguien especial del cual se derive esa atracción e interés. Cuando la película se acabo, me puse a leer un poco y encontré este texto que me encanto.
De alguna manera me demostró que el sentimiento de estar locamente enamorado todavía existe...


I want to know you
The Wasted Generation
"I want to know your birthday and your parents jobs and if you ever heard them fighting or having sex and if you love your siblings and the worst fight you’ve ever gotten into and if you like one sibling more than the other and what you wanted to be when you grew up when you were seven and your dream vacation and the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you and if you’ve been to therapy and if it helped and the hardest thing you’ve experienced and how you overcame it and if you like what you see when you look in the mirror and if you think appearances matter in a relationship or at all and your favorite movie and which books changed your life and the hardest you’ve ever cried and which grandparent you loved the most and if the words “we need to talk” make you sick to your stomach and why and which holiday is your favorite and which season and which color and if you like rain and if you’re scared of dying and if you believe in god and if you have allergies and to what and what your favorite food is and restaurant and if you like to cook and whether or not you care about cleanliness and what your political views are and if you’re a feminist and your favorite flower and song and if you’d rather own a cat or a dog and if you’d shave off all your hair to give it to a little girl going through chemotherapy and where you’d like to live and honeymoon and what kind of gum and candy you like and what you act like when you’re mad and if you’d rather someone buy you silver or gold jewelry or neither and what clique you were in in high school and what you think your spirit animal is and which flower you’d be and who you admire and which traits you wish were more dominant and if you ever worry you’re a shitty person and what hurt you the most and why you ever thought you were worthless and how someone can make you feel better when you’re sad and if you prefer hugs or kisses and what your house looks like and what your dream car is and which celebrity you think lives the most tragic life and why you think people become so cold and what you think about nature vs nurture and if you believe in heaven and aliens and mermaids and reincarnation and the bible and which feeling is your least favorite and what was the best day you ever had and what would be the best day and if you see yourself as the protector or one who needs protecting and how you deal with your pain and what you would do if you had 100 million dollars and if you think wealth affects people’s morals and what good you think writing is and if you could do it all over, would you and what would you change and what mistake was your biggest and which language you wish you spoke fluently and how many people you’ve loved and if you loved the person you lost your virginity to and if you realize you’re remarkable and what your enneagram is and how you think we could improve the education system and what you think of people who commit suicide and if you think they’re selfish and what you say to them before they did it if you could and what your favorite memory of your childhood is and how you take your tea or if you prefer coffee and when you last wrote someone a handwritten letter and what the best gift you ever received was and what the best piece of advice was and when the last time you cried was and if you’re competitive about board games and which is your favorite and if you feel pressured to settle down and what you notice first in a person and what your top three pet peeves are and if you have any phobias and what you’ve always wanted to do but don’t have the courage to go through with and what you do when you feel overwhelmingly sad and if you ski and if plastic surgery was 100% safe and painless, would you get it and where and why and where you think home is and if you think politeness is important and what you think of indecisive people and if you think there’s ever a reason to go to war and something that scares you and if you believe in therapy and what you want in life and what you look for in a partner and what you want to change about yourself and about the world and who you want to be and who you are. just tell me who you are. I want to know you.”

Xoxo, RWPF


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